Thelma Arlene Weston-Gorman
March 31, 1935 to March 17, 1989

Arlene Gorman of Fremont, CA, was born March 31, 1935 in Weirton, WV to George R, Weston and Barbrara Schady-Weston. She grew up in the McKeesport, PA area and graduated from McKeesport High School where she was a member of the schools band and played base fiddle. Arlene married Robert W. Gorman June 9, 1956 in Carmel By The Sea, California. Pictured is Arlene with her four children (L-R) Bill, Robert "Bruce", Ron and Danna.Arlene & Bob Wedding June 1956

 

In this picture Arlene is dancing with her husband Robert William Gorman at their niece's wedding in 1980.  Arlene and Bob were married for 33 years. 

My Mother used to tell me "I never had an expensive present like that" and I would remind her that I was born on her birthday. We shared or birthday cakes and blew the candles out together, now whenever I have a birthday cake I put and extra candle in for Mom now.   Our favorite was German Chocolate Cake.
Mom and I March 31, 1985
When Mom was nearing her end in early March, I told her that she could make it rain on our birthday to let me know that she was all right. I spent the two weeks between her death and our birthday in the Santa Cruz Mountains of California which was having a drought. It rained at least one a day through to our birthday and has rained every year since then on our birthday no matter where I am. 

In 2001, on my birthday I was in St. Petersburg, FL with my son Chris, eating lunch at a restaurant when a hail storm struck. The hail was so big I had to run out and pull a sleeping bag from the back of the car to throw over the hood of the car to prevent damage.  My son said it's your Mom.

When my Father was in the hospital suffering from the butchering murderers at Kaiser Hospital in San Francisco, he had been under sedation for a couple of months.  Upon coming out of sedation he was complaining to the staff that it was raining in his room. I guess Mom can make it rain indoors too.  This experience gave my Dad the faith he needed to cross over to the other side. He was pretty much a non- believer before this, and before he died he said "You know maybe Bill is right".  He was also reading books about the afterlife.

As a teenager my Mom took us kids on two trips across the United States and Eastern Canada. I was her navigator and now I have been to all of the states except North Dakota and Hawaii. Thank you Mom for showing me the beautiful places in America. 

It is now 15 years latter and I still miss my sweat Mom but have not stopped talking to her. Dad joined her in 2000 and guess what? the wind was howling it was raining when I poured his ashes out on top of Mission Peak in Fremont, California and his ashes mixed with the rain, seeding the clouds.  That evening I left for Colorado and it snowed so heavy that I had to put chains to drive over the Sierras and it continued to snow across Nevada. I felt as if his ashes were falling back down on me.


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Updated 12/7/2004

Updated and Edited by Arlene's Son William Gorman